''You're No One Till Someone Calls You Gay''
8:30PM ET October 12th, 2012
Contributor : Monica Coleman
A Rocky Williform Company

Marsha Ambrosius had to know that her new video for her single "F__K N Get Over It" was going to raise some eyebrows.

And some questions.

The singer/songwriter released the video, which features her getting ready for a liaison with what turns out to be a woman. And she released the video on National Coming Out Day.

But she says everyone got it wrong.

"Double standards! Any male artist can openly brag about how many groupies he gets!" she posted on Facebook. "Can u imagine how many men AND women have come on to me??? Listen to my music! I tell it! Always! I am not a lesbian! I am straight! I will never say I haven’t fantasized or had sexually explicit dreams about women before! That would make me liar! I’ve been called a lesbian since I got into the entertainment business! You’re no one till someone calls you gay lol I’m so comfortable with myself, I’m not afraid to tell the story from all perspectives! I’ve done so from the very beginning! Ppl hear what they want to hear! I make you listen to what I feel!"