''Why Don't You Find A Young Girlfriend?''
6:00AM ET January 17th, 2013
Contributor : Monica Coleman
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J. Lo knows what people are thinking. Heck, she even thought it herself.

The singer/actress spoke to PEOPLE about her relationship with dancer Casper Smart. There is an almost twenty-year age difference between the lovers, and she admitted that she's asked him about dating a woman old enough to be his mom.

“I ask him, ‘Why don’t you go find a young girlfriend and get out of here? What do you want with me?’ And you think, ‘How long is this gonna be?’ You think, ‘Okay, in 10 years I’m going to be like this and you’re going to be like that’ and … men at that age are … I think all different things," she said.

"The truth is we don’t know what’s going to happen," she revealed. "We’re loving this moment right now. We make each other happy.”