''You Are Going To Attract Who You Are''
6:00AM ET July 30, 2010
Contributor : Hip Hop Blog Staff
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Singer/songwriter Lyfe Jennings' single "Statistics," is one of the most talked-about songs of the summer, but the R&B crooner has some interesting views on relationships, women, and men in the industry. He recently gave his take on why men in the industry don't want regular women--and why those women should be happy that they aren't wanted:

"I think that man is just attracted to a woman who is free. She’s just living her life and in connection, she makes him feel free too. You have to understand that before coming into the industry, most cats were just regular dudes who never had a chance to get with someone that’s hot like that. And now they can get these chicks that’s just living her life and is live, she makes him live too.

[But you] should actually be flattered by that. Because you are going to attract who you are. This dude might have a great career but he might not be a great person so he is not going to be attracted to a great woman. The Amber Rose, Kat Stacks, etc.. All that is temporary. But that woman that is working hard every day to provide for herself and her family; mentally, spiritually, intellectually, emotionally… that’s forever! Because them t*tties are gonna sag one day. Those t*tties are going to be down by your belly button one day and you’re gonna need something else to keep your man."